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ek9

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:10 pm

Hey whats up
I know i'm a newbie here but wanted to see what others had to say about my problem.

Date my ex for 2 1/2 months..fell in love with her. Everything was going perfect. Her parents loved me, she has a son- he loved me even called me daddy. Like i said things were going perfect. We would say i love you to each other before hanging up the phone and all

well 2 wks before we broke up i was told by a person she was going out w/ her ex. By that time i did notice she was acting weird, not picking up the phone and such.
I went up to her and asked her what was up..she said it was nothing that she has been tired and stressed out b/c she just quit her job. When i asked her about her ex...i mentioned his name, she stood quite for a sec. She NEVER mentioned his name to me so was like how the **** you know his name. She kind of laughed and said no, and was like who the f**k is talking **** about me this and that.

Well i ended up wanting to break up with her b/c i couldn't take it anymore. While the talk i asked her what had happened..her response was " i just think we are not meant to be"...so i was like cool i respect that

But 2 1/2 wks later and she is still on my mind. Not 24/7 but when ever our song comes up i start thinking about her and just get **** off. What gets me even more **** is that i was told he is a total jerk, that he treats her like crap.

I really don't know what to do...she always talked to me about this scrap book she was starting to make with all our love notes to show ours kids later on in life. She even showed me the book. At a time she asked me what i was going to do with my life..that she thought she was ready to just become a full time mom and just take care of the house. I didn't respond to that being that we were only together for 1 month (at the time)

Her son loved me and i love hom..i treated him like if he was my own kid.

Just really confused on what to do. Would like to try to talk to her again but don't want to be the first to break. Also don't want to be rejected. Some friends say to forget her..that she basically used me to try to forget about her ex.

What would you do?
pOrk

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:04 pm

lol

How old are you?
Drifting10

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:08 pm

bro what you needa do is just go up to her and explain what you just told us to her. I mean isnt that the best you can do right now?

Tell her everything about how much you care for her son and he cares about you. A kid needs the ONE father figure in their lives not this dad one day gone the next for another one that he's going to have to get used to.

But i digress forget about your pride man if this is something you truely want go for it and let nothing stand in your way forget about "breaking first" just shows you have that strong of feelings for this chick. Also IF you are rejected whats so wrong with that atleast in your heart you know you tried everything to get her back and if she does say no to all of that atleast you know its not ment to be right now.

Thats my oppinion on the whole thing.

Hope it helped man
Tdawgthegreatest

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:08 pm

Keep yourself busy, buy lots of Glow from Oznium for a HUGE project. That kept my mind off of my ex when she cheated on me with ma best friend -.- *****.

Just think of stuff to do.
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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:09 pm

pOrk wrote:
lol

How old are you?


x2
Golfer

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:10 pm

2.5 months.... that sounds like a high school relationship.
pOrk

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:15 pm

^ At best
Ryan88

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:21 pm

is this blktbon20s with a dif. name because you don't wanna be embarassed? Lol who makes a first post ever on a car enthusiast board about this?
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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 10:46 pm

Ryan88 wrote:
is this blktbon20s with a dif. name because you don't wanna be embarassed? Lol who makes a first post ever on a car enthusiast board about this?


LMFAO!! biglaugh.gif
robbie

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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 10:54 pm

^^ I say buy tons of **** for you car. Then put it on, drive around, pick up all kinds of hot chicks and then have the time of your life EVERY weekend.
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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 11:34 pm

Golfer wrote:
2.5 months.... that sounds like a high school relationship.


****! I read that as 2.5 years. If you were only dating for 2.5 months....that's nothing. It shouldn't be that hard to get over it. Just find something to keep yourself occupied. Once a cheat, always a cheat. If you want to be w/ a cheating girlfriend then go and talk to her. But, if it was me I would leave that **** in the trash.
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Post Tue Apr 29, 2008 11:47 pm

A prostitute with a bucket of AIDS and herpes will get your mind off ALOT of things!!!!
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:10 am

pOrk wrote:
lol

How old are you?


My exact thoughts reading that...



as for an answer...dude, its only 2.5 months...you cant love someone after that short amount of time because you don't know anything about them....

I'm sorry you feel like you were led on and screwed in the end....make it a lesson learned and know what to expect from your next relationship....and if she has a daughter who can talk already and acts like she did, I suggest you move your standards up and look for someone who can act more their age...I feel sorry for her daughter, she's going to end up marrying someone like that 7 year old who stole grannies car "cause its fun to get in trouble"..

Best of luck to ya.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 2:01 am

Golfer wrote:
2.5 months.... that sounds like a high school relationship.
It does sound like a high school relationship but his girl already has a damn kid, So I'm guessing she's between the ages of 18-22. But what you need to do is find her X-boyfriend and whoop his ass! But yes, 2.5 months is not long enough to love someone, when you get past a year, then you can talk about love.... maybe. But when you get to 3 1/2 years like me, then you can most certainly talk about love.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 4:39 am

Forget about her . Plenty of fish in the sea and all that . As stated, 2.5 months is nothing in the scope of a normal adult relationship .
Also, in the future.. anyone who tells you that they're ready to settle down and make babies with you after knowing you for a month is probably psycho .
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 5:43 am

pOrk wrote:
lol

How old are you?


x3
robbie

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:23 am

ek9 wrote:
Not 24/7 but when ever our song comes up i start thinking about her and just get **** off.


I think we are all missing the best part. He hears their song and gets mad. Well put a CD in or change the station DUR!! biglaugh.gif

Unless of course you are listening to it on purpose and that is just dumb.
Barbie

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:46 am

love is unpredictable it does not have an age...dont to be to quick to accept it though 2 1/2 months isnt enough time to decide what you to feel. apparently it wasnt a mutual feeling or she wouldnt have left you for him. but all in all good luck with it
Tdawgthegreatest

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:17 am

robbie wrote:
ek9 wrote:
Not 24/7 but when ever our song comes up i start thinking about her and just get **** off.


I think we are all missing the best part. He hears their song and gets mad. Well put a CD in or change the station DUR!! biglaugh.gif

Unless of course you are listening to it on purpose and that is just dumb.


Yeah...who listens to the radio now-a-days anyways? I always have My ipod hooked up in my truck....10,355 songs.
pOrk

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:23 am

Solution: Stick it in her butt and Pee.

/endthread
TRogers

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:25 am

GBS!


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Tdawgthegreatest

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:27 am

pOrk wrote:
Solution: Stick it in her butt and Pee.

/endthread


Damn another Post of the day hahahahaha

/endthread indeed
robbie

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:31 am

Hire a Hitman. Preferably a bald one wearing a black suit with sweet silenced pistols.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:35 am

pOrk wrote:
Solution: Stick it in her butt and Pee.

/endthread


This should be common knowlage by now people come on. It took that long for someone to post this!!?!!?!?!?
TRogers

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:39 am

Although if you can pee with your wang in her pooper that means one of two things...Small junk, or a loose browneye.

Under normal circumstances it totally closes down the pee tunnel.
robbie

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:40 am

^^ I honestly don't want to know how you know this. But it is still funny.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:41 am

TRogers wrote:
Although if you can pee with your wang in her pooper that means one of two things...Small junk, or a loose browneye.

Under normal circumstances it totally closes down the pee tunnel.


Marry me?
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:45 am

robbie wrote:
^^ I honestly don't want to know how you know this. But it is still funny.


x2
Losing quickly

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:45 am

TRogers wrote:
Although if you can pee with your wang in her pooper that means one of two things...Small junk, or a loose browneye.

Under normal circumstances it totally closes down the pee tunnel.


My thinking too.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:56 am

kornholio788 wrote:

Marry me?


I Do!
pOrk

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 8:58 am

Thats why you induce the donkey punch so you have time to de bonerize, do the butt peeing, and flee the scene with her hot mom.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:02 am

That's a great idea!

Just plug it before the poo starts to shoot and you're golden...


...
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:05 am

kornholio788 wrote:
TRogers wrote:
Although if you can pee with your wang in her pooper that means one of two things...Small junk, or a loose browneye.

Under normal circumstances it totally closes down the pee tunnel.


Marry me?


Soo... we find out someone's got anal experience, and korn wants him to marry him...

I think that's proof enough that...
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Losing quickly

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:08 am

^^remove for profanity please.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:12 am

It's not *** if you're the one giving.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:15 am

Losing quickly wrote:
^^remove for profanity please.

What's profane?

EDIT: NVM... apparently *** is on the word list...


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Losing quickly

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:17 am

dammit
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:18 am

Dammit isn't word-filtered
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:30 am

o.k this is weird but funny biglaugh.gif i agree with pOrk
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 10:02 am

TRogers wrote:
It's not *** if you're the one giving.


Actually its if the balls don't touch then it isn't ***. But eh. Urs works too biglaugh.gif
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 10:36 am

Well pshyeah, that too. But you're totally *** if you RECEIVE. icon_razz.gif
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 11:05 am

TRogers wrote:
Well pshyeah, that too. But you're totally *** if you RECEIVE. icon_razz.gif


Aken was the one recieving. I was catching. BIG difference if you recall from our video. Punk!
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 11:44 am

Lol nice. I remember now.

gheyness.
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:03 pm

Drifting10 wrote:
bro what you needa do is just go up to her and explain what you just told us to her. I mean isnt that the best you can do right now?

Tell her everything about how much you care for her son and he cares about you. A kid needs the ONE father figure in their lives not this dad one day gone the next for another one that he's going to have to get used to.

But i digress forget about your pride man if this is something you truely want go for it and let nothing stand in your way forget about "breaking first" just shows you have that strong of feelings for this chick. Also IF you are rejected whats so wrong with that atleast in your heart you know you tried everything to get her back and if she does say no to all of that atleast you know its not ment to be right now.

Thats my oppinion on the whole thing.

Hope it helped man

Thanks ma dude
BTW i'm 21 so is she
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 2:40 pm

mx107marlin wrote:
Losing quickly wrote:
^^remove for profanity please.

What's profane?

EDIT: NVM... apparently *** is on the word list...
*** means happy! icon_biggrin.gif
Cooper

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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 2:45 pm

"***" isn't even slang, let alone vulgar .
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Post Wed Apr 30, 2008 4:19 pm

I think I shall stay out this thread.
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