Winter Ball?

ok so we have a winter formal coming up and i need some ideas on how to ask my gf to it....i kno all of you guys have been through school or are so i am sure you have some good ideas and lets hear your stories also

just ask her straight up if she wants to go..... it's not like your asking her to marry you lol

its your girlfriend..not like you dont ask her if she wants to do other stuff

If its your GF i would hope you wouldnt need to ask her to the dance it should be implied. Just ask if she wants dinner before you go to the dance.

Okay, When I was in High school, if you were Boyfriend Girlfriend, Together, a Couple, or w/e it was assumed you were going together. Is this like a friend who is a girl? like your friends who are male? Or a girlfriend?

I think you are over stressing this situation, trust me there is life after high school.. this winter ball will not matter in a few years or even months.

i would understand the point of this thread if you were trying to get out of going....

but since it seems you want to go, and shes your gf wtf is the big deal?


justin.

Agreed. It should be understood you're going to the winter ball together. Like someone asked, are you officially a couple? If you are, just ask her where she wants to go to dinner beforehand or whatever. Or, if she even wants to go to the ball at all. Plan a romantic dinner for just you two. Don't invite other couples along, unless you're not comfortable with each other then it's ok.

your worrying about asking your girlfriend to a dance?

well, since you want to hear stories. One of my guy friends, it was his first time going to a dance and he had a date that liked him, but he didn't like her. He was soo nervous that he had the **** and stayed in the bathroom the whole time....lol... .. YES.

jol102001 wrote:

well, since you want to hear stories. One of my guy friends, it was his first time going to a dance and he had a date that liked him, but he didn't like her. He was soo nervous that he had the **** and stayed in the bathroom the whole time....lol... .. YES.

well goingpro if u want some info.........just wing it

FatManDan wrote:

.........just wing it

I love living by that saying...

well we are a couple we have been going out for a year and a half.....but at our school most people come up with like good ways to ask them out.....for example...decorating their rooms or making big signs at football games and what not...believe me i wouldnt even ask her to the dance cept that she is complaining cause last time i didnt ask her or anything and so i guess i have to do something semi "special" this time....but alrite thanks guys for the help...
peace

^I've never heard of people doing stuff like that to ask a girl to a dance.

goinpro wrote:

well we are a couple we have been going out for a year and a half.....but at our school most people come up with like good ways to ask them out.....for example...decorating their rooms or making big signs at football games and what not...believe me i wouldnt even ask her to the dance cept that she is complaining cause last time i didnt ask her or anything and so i guess i have to do something semi "special" this time....but alrite thanks guys for the help... peace

Ohhhh...ok. I gotcha now! You want to find a special way to ask her. That's sweet! Well, you could take her out to eat, and maybe slip something in her dessert, or get the servers to ask for you. Or, perhaps, if you have pictures from last year's ball, make a little display in her room with pictures, a sign, balloons, some flowers, etc. If I think of something else, I'll let you know. The biggest thing for her probably is wanting to feel like she's special. Not that it's just like ok, he's my boyfriend, we're going to the dance. She wants to feel like "Cinderella". Shoot, buy her a fake crown and some flowers, and ask her to be your princess for the night or something. It may sound corny, but I bet she'd like it.

I played the loser card for a while. Go to dances and sit around until some hot girl decides to come over and bug you to come dance.

I call it playing hard to get. lol

After that got old, I realized it was stupid to not ask someone to dance when you wanted to. So just go do it. If she says no (I'm not really talking about a specific instance anymore...), then go ask someone else.

ahh...highschool days...so glad those are long gone...How life changes afterwards...

I miss high school. My life sucked after high school.

I cant stand high school, maybe its just my school that I dont like but Oh well. LAST YEAR WOO HOO

If people actually make signs and go to those lengths, to ask thier b.f or g.f to a dance, that is just soooo SAVED BY THE BELL....

well im gonna go down to the THE MAXX and have some fries and a shake.

HAHAHA Oh man thats classic. TBS has been playing alot of Saved By The Bell.

Aken wrote:

I played the loser card for a while. Go to dances and sit around until some hot girl decides to come over and bug you to come dance. I call it playing hard to get. lol After that got old, I realized it was stupid to not ask someone to dance when you wanted to. So just go do it. If she says no (I'm not really talking about a specific instance anymore...), then go ask someone else.

that works for me too..sometimes it's better than being stuck with just one person

write goto winterball? on your winky....that will surprise her

just an update....today me and my boy asked our gf's (b/c they are really good friends) we had them go on a scavanger hunt through there favorite stores and restaurants and then it ended at a big as sculpture that is is a rose.....and at nite the bottom is lit up and it looks hella sick....but anyways just if anyone cared
peace

jethawk wrote:

just ask her straight up if she wants to go..... it's not like your asking her to marry you lol

What he said.

Save the "special" invitation for prom.

goinpro wrote:

just an update....today me and my boy asked our gf's (b/c they are really good friends) we had them go on a scavanger hunt through there favorite stores and restaurants and then it ended at a big as sculpture that is is a rose.....and at nite the bottom is lit up and it looks hella sick....but anyways just if anyone cared peace

You must live in a really boring town...

Moss wrote:

goinpro wrote: just an update....today me and my boy asked our gf's (b/c they are really good friends) we had them go on a scavanger hunt through there favorite stores and restaurants and then it ended at a big as sculpture that is is a rose.....and at nite the bottom is lit up and it looks hella sick....but anyways just if anyone cared peace You must live in a really boring town...

o believe me we do....guess were the hangout spot is.....in front of a gorcery store...there is nothing to do in our town cept see movies
peace

damn i feel sorry for ya i used to live in a boring town but i moved up out of there

You still live in Ohio?

Moss wrote:

You still live in Ohio?

LOL

FatManDan wrote:

write goto winterball? on your winky....that will surprise her

that's some funny ****

ditto

ohio sucks ass not gonna lie to ya

Pennsylvania'a pretty bad. Only thing I can think of is like Penn State parties...Unless you like miles and miles of NOTHING!

Yea I don't even ask my girlfriend to the formals. It's just implied.

Bobberrific wrote:

Pennsylvania'a pretty bad.

yup pretty much sucks ass.

Well down in LA.... we know how to party.... Ya know... in da DIRTY SOUTH. Eh, in the big easy(New Orleans) it gets rockin, but not where i'm at.

Every time you say LA, I think Los Angeles...

not the Dirty Dirty South...

justinwebb wrote:

ohio sucks ass not gonna lie to ya

werd.... this state sucks... whereabouts in Ohio you live?

pataskala right outside of columbus.....u?

KC is pretty damn boring as well. Unless you're 21 and older, which I won't be for another 3 months.

Atlanta is the only tru Dirty South!

ATL baby!